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Lost no more (mostly)

Aging brain. ADHD. Distractions. Emergencies. I have no idea any more what mixture I can use as the reason for losing things. Losing stuff is especially disturbing, distracting, distressing when I’m traveling. There are so many places I might have left my keys or journal or Kindle , and it holds everybody up when someone has to make a trip back to the hotel to get the camera I left on the bedside table.

It took me decades of Where’s-my-_____? before it sunk in that I need to be more attached to my possessions.

I realize my husband preaches against attachment to worldly goods, but I’ll justify myself this way: If I physically attach myself to whatever gets lost most frequently, then I don’t have to think about the phone, the keys, the eyeglasses, so therefore I’m not letting myself be overly attached to them, not letting them monopolize my mind and attention.

Canon Metal Neck Strap 1 for All Elph Cameras, 34Therefore, when I’m traveling or at an event, I wear my camera around my neck like an accessory. For security, I like the Canon Neck Strap that’s a metal chain enclosed in clear plastic. I tell myself it’s like I’m wearing a silver necklace.

 

Pacsafe Luggage Metrosafe 200 Gii Shoulder BagI’ve worked to make a habit of hanging my keys on a carabiner and hanging the carabiner on a handy loop on my purse, a shoulder bag, so that too hangs on me.  ( I always use the same purse with just the right arrangement of pockets, so I can reach in without looking and grab what I want. Phooey on fashion–changing purses is a surefire way to leave behind something I’ll need.)

As I’ve mentioned before, I usually wear my glasses hanging around my neck if they’re not on my face. After a year and a half, they’re hardly scratched and I usually know where they are.

519BsGDm4PL._SS400_What’s the item that’s most often lost, whether on the road or at home? My phone. Too many women’s clothes don’t have pockets, so I can’t keep it on me that way. I always have my neck with me, so that’s where the phone needs to hang. Up till now I’ve made do by stringing a lanyard through some opening on a regular case, but even if it sort of works, still the phone is hanging from just one point, and therefore is rotating free when I lean forward.

If you’re wanting the same thing, I hope my hours of searching online can serve for you too. Yesterday my Lanskin Case arrived. Yes! It’s all I’d been hoping for. The case is soft, but not the mushy kind of soft that stretches out in a few weeks. The surface is not slippery. The adjustable lanyard is of the same material and is built into the case, projecting from either side of the bottom of the case, so the phone hangs upside down. That way, you don’t have to flip it around to see it right side up. I wouldn’t mind if it came in purple, but the basic black (or white) is great. It’s available for iPhone and iPod.

iphone 4/4s Case with Adjustable & Detachable Neck Lanyard BlackIf you’d rather have colors for iphone 4 or 4S, here’s one that looks really good. I was really tempted, but in the end preferred not to have the metal clips. But purple . . .   You can follow on FaceBook to know when the Liberty Case colors and/0r bling are out for iPhone 5.

 

I wish I could say I never lose anything anymore–that’s why mostly is in the title. But it’s lots better these days.

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Whose palace?

Front of Palace of Parliament

Looming over Bucharest is the 2nd largest building (by surface area) in the world (after the Pentagon). Its sides are about as long as its front and it extends deep underground. Probably an aerial view (which I couldn’t manage on my own) helps give a bigger perspective. Here’s an article that includes that overview and at least one Romanian’s perspective on the palace.

Nowadays, the Palace of Parliament houses Romania’s main government offices and the National Museum of Contemporary Art. But many of the 1100 rooms remain unoccupied.

Ceasescu destroyed much of the old city to create a vista from which he would be able to view all Romania's citizens as he stood on his balcony

The construction began in 1983. Ceausescu intended it to be the seat of his government, his own regal palace home from which he could see all the people of Romania gathered in the grand avenue before him, and a symbol to the world of his glory.

It was built by “volunteers,” in other words, by people who were unpaid after being conscripted. I’ve heard that no one was allowed to work more than 3 days in one part of the building, that people were constantly moved about so that no one could understand much about the whole place. I’ve also heard that a number of secret rooms were built, and that the people who worked on those spaces soon died or disappeared.

As our group followed our guide along marble floors, over hand woven carpets, between carved columns, Silvia gasped again and again, “This! While our family of 8 was allowed 1 pound of flour per month. One pound! What can you make with one pound? . . . Five eggs! That’s all we were granted per month. . . . While he was building this.” (our photos)

One of the ironies of communism is the habit of naming things “The People’s _____.” I suppose that’s because in true communism everything is to be from the people, by the people, for the people. In reality, what often gets left out is the part about for the people.

The People’s Palace is a prime example. It was paid for from the resources of the Romanian people, built by the hands, sweat, and lives of the people . . . for the glory of Ceausescu.

But irony turned against him. He died before his glorious palace was finished.

Even now, 23 years later, it’s not clear what the true story of the palace is.

  • How many underground floors are there? Officially there are 8. Why officially? One person told me it’s because you ask yourself: How can I be sure about anything by or about such a man? But maybe there are just at least 8?. . . or as many below ground as there are above (12)? . . . or 40, as one teenager thought he’d heard?
  • In 1990, just a few months after Ceasescu’s death, Larry and Alice Agnew were taken around the building by one of the workers. Their eyewitness report is that only 3-4 of the rooms were completely finished and fitted out. But our guide and several online sources say the building was 90% ready to be occupied at that time.
  • During that same visit in 1990, the worker told Larry and Alice that Ceausescu had gathered from all around the world the finest and rarest of materials like marble and wood. But our guide, even when pressed, insisted that the place is a showcase of Romanian resources, that Ceausescu was proud that all the finest material were from somewhere within the nation.
It’s easy to see why there might be a general sense of skepticism. Who’s right? Who can be believed? Who is telling the truth to the best of their ability, but they don’t know they were deceived?

God Knows My Size! Silvia Tarniceriu

Ah, but throughout all of this, there were people who knew truth and knew where to find it. “When all around my soul gives way, he then is all my hope and stay. ” There were families, like the Tarniceriu family who kept on singing and speaking the Gospel, even when it meant imprisonment and worse.
There’s more to be written about that, another time.

 

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Esther Expedition: I remember her

Esther Expedition

One of those amazing God-incidents (no coincidences, you know) led us to two men who looked at Esther Nelson’s photo and said, “I think I remember her.”

To back up to the beginning of the day, we were looking at the Esther Nelson’s China photobook with Mr. X who grew up here. He kept saying with wonder, “These photos are precious, so precious.” When we came to a panorama of the city of Ya’an, where we are, he pointed to a tiny bump on the mountain ridge behind the city, “That’s where the Mingde school was.” By the way, apparently all the Baptist schools in Sichuan were named Mingde — which translates loosely as “Bright Morality.”

Before he went with us up to where the school was, he told us he has a friend who is the son of the next-to-last principal of the school, and that when he talked with him next, he’d ask him for any information that we might be glad to have.

On the top of a forested hill overlooking the city is a solid-looking, 3-story, brown brick building with a grand, high-arching entry. This was the Mingde School for what Americans would call middle school and high school. It sits empty and locked up in an area that’s a park now. Between being a school and being left empty, it housed the district government administration. (photos)

Behind the old school is a smaller 1-story building–a cafe. In the area between the cafe and the school are umbrella tables crowded with mahjong- and card-playing people. We heard this building used to be the dining room for teachers.

Now, here comes the God-incident. As we walked around outside the building, taking pictures, Mr. X called to Joann. “Remember the man I told you about? Here he is!” The son of the former principal, the very man Mr. X had told us about earlier, was sitting at one of those tables, playing mahjong with his brother and some others.

The brothers came around to the front with us to look at the photobook. When they turned the page to group photo of hospital staff , including Esther, one of the brothers pointed to her and said, “I remember her.” He was young and didn’t really know anything about her, but he remembers her. The words I’ve been dreaming I’d hear sometime on this expedition.

Their father had gone through Mingde School before he went away for higher education and came back again to work in the school. And yes, they said, he attended the Baptist church.

“Did you?” we asked. They said they were so small that they had just played while the service was going on. Remember over the course of the 1950s–while both of them were still boys–churches all closed down. Neither is involved with church now.

One more thing. They remember missionaries out amongst the people on the street, giving the children beautiful pictures. “We had lots of them at our house.”

The cards you sent–I have been pasting some on colored strips of paper with a religious tract and health tract on same. They love these pictures to hang up in their homes, so I thought they would also have some of these tracts which they would not tear off and some good may come of them. (Esther Nelson, 4/16/37)

Our conversation and pictures today have wakened memories in these men. Beautiful pictures. Whispers of long-ago hymns. Their own recall of “Jesus Loves Me.” A father who thought church important. Might it be that those old memories, stirred to life today, might stir the brothers to new life?

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Tuesday! Tuesday! Hear all about it!

It’s not that long ago when I was thinking, “Can I really spend a month in China? Is this a crazy idea?” Right at that time, no kidding, this was my fortune at Lee Ann Chin (don’t tell Joann, but that’s my family’s favorite “Chinese” place to eat).

I don’t want you to think that the paths of my life are guided by fortune cookies, but yes, my tickets now are booked.

Joann and I are thankful to all of you who are following with interest our Esther expedition. We’re getting together to talk about our trip and hope you can join us. We’ll have pictures and stories and maybe some goodies too.

 

Bethlehem to China: A Journey

Bethlehem Baptist Church

Downtown Campus, Room 114

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

7:00pm - 9:00pm

In the late 1920’s, a young woman departed Bethlehem for southwest China, where she worked as a nurse and teacher until 1951. Esther’s story rests in her letters, and it’s a story waiting to be discovered and told.

In March 2012, Noel Piper and Global Partner Joann Pittman will travel to China to trace the life and legacy of Esther. They’ll be seeking the land and people that captured Esther’s heart, traveling to the towns and villages where she served, hopefully even finding people who remember her.

You are invited to hear Noel and Joann talk about their upcoming “Esther Expedition” on Tuesday, January 10, at 7:00pm at the Downtown Campus.

RSVP isn’t required, but we’d love to know if you’re coming. You can do that by commenting here or by using the Contact link above–also if you have any questions.

My favorite suitcase

Okay. For you last minute shoppers–you know who you are. And you know how hard it is to find the right gift after you’ve waited this long. Maybe I can help you make it good.

I’ve already mentioned some of my favorite travel items that might make good gifts–here and here. But I really should mention again my favorite suitcase.

One corner of our attic is piled with suitcases, most from thrift shops so we can afford to fill them with gifts and deliveries when we’re on mission trips and then leave them behind when they’re emptied.

Eagle Creek Travel Gear Hovercraft 22 DuffelBut my suitcase always goes with me and comes back home again–my Eagle Creek 22-inch Hovercraft rolling duffel.

When I was looking for a new bag, I looked only at Eagle Creek products, comparing prices and looking for the highest cubic inch capacity in a carry-on size bag. This was the one I found and I love it–no fancy pockets, just lots of open space that I can use as I need.

And you can’t get a better warranty than Eagle Creek’s no-matter-what. Have you ever had a bag that’s good, except that the wheels are dragging instead of rolling? Won’t happen with Eagle Creek wheels.

In case you wonder how much my suitcase will really carry . . .

I love watching videos of how to pack for a week in your carry-on. They always look so neat. And all the while, I’m thinking, but what about my big old walking shoes . . . my “insurance” bag of bandaids, laundry stuff, diarrhea pills, etc. . . . my . . .  You get the idea. So here’s how I packed for one 2-week trip, planning to do laundry as needed, by hand if necessary. For this particular trip, I checked the Eagle Creek Hovercraft, so that allowed me to carry 2 other pieces as carry-on.

First of all, in my 2 briefcase sized carry-ons, I packed:

  • overnight needs, including bathroom bag and 1 outfit, in case of lost luggage or unexpected delays
  • swimming suit & pareo, in case I get to hotel before my luggage does
  • laptop
  • kindle
  • CPAP
  • case with electronic chargers
  • Australia tour books
  • prescription meds
  • all my 3-ounce-or-less liquids in a zipper plastic bag
  • etc.

Then here’s the Hovercraft 22-inch duffel:

Layer 1: fill spaces around handle base with underwear, “insurance”bag, rolled up cover-up, socks, other small items
Layer 2: Books for gifts, rolled up sweater, knit shirts, socks filling gaps
Layer 3: Walking shoes upside down so they can smash down into the soft layer below, whichever Sunday shoes pack the flattest, flip flops, bag of energy snacks
Top layer: Clothes that are better folded flat. Then push everything down tight and zip bag shut.
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Our “following in the footsteps” expedition

Joann and I have submitted a proposal to an organization that will choose from among the entries winners who will receive a grant to help them carry out a China expedition. I don’t know if our trip by public transportation along public highways is expedition-like enough for them. In any case, putting the information together nudged us toward more of the details we need to pull together anyway.

Now we’ll just pray that 2 women following in the footsteps of an adventurous, amazing China-loving woman will be offbeat enough to catch their attention. Until the announcement in January, we’ll just keep on making our plans to go as we would have anyway.

I invited (encouraged) those of you in the area to come to the Bethlehem Holiday boutique this Friday and Saturday, so you can see more about Esther Nelson when you visit our table and display. Also, every purchase from our table goes into our expedition fund. I know some of you are too far away to come, and I don’t want you to feel left out. So here’s the summary we submitted to the competition.

Following in the Footsteps of Esther Nelson

Esther Nelson’s average-looking exterior hid an adventurer’s heart. Who could have foretold that the self-deprecating Swede-turned-Minnesotan would spend her life in China?

Nowadays, some travel to China several times a year. But for Esther to travel to Sichuan from Minneapolis in 1924, 1932, 1939, and 1947 was 15 weeks by train, ferry, ocean liner, river steamer, raft, chair, rickshaw, foot and maybe mule or wheelbarrow. This was true of every traveler from America to China until not so very long ago.

During the epochal years of 1924-1951, Esther lived in Chengdu, Yachow, Suifu, Ya’an, and Huili, working as a nurse and as a teacher of nursing students. Her first post was during the early years of what later became Sichuan University. In addition, her interest in the minority peoples of the Tibetan Plateau sent her trekking to villages as far away as 60 Li.

This was an era of warlords, civil war, invasion and liberation. In 1927, she evacuated to Shanghai because of anti-foreign activities. In 1935, the Chengdu hospital was flooded with casualties from the Long March nearby. In 1940, she stayed in Suifu despite Japanese bombs. In 1945, she evacuated to America due to Japanese invasion, returning to China in 1947. In 1951, she had to flee, even without an exit visa. This was a grueling trek, during which a young mother died near Hanyuan, leaving 4 children. Esther cared for the motherless infant through the rest of the journey. Perhaps we will find the monument to the lost mother still there.

I am 63. In the end, Esther was 61. It seems propitious to follow now in the footsteps of this remarkable woman, along with Joann Pittman, another woman who has made China home and brings almost three decades of language and cultural experience to the venture.

Through visiting places Esther lived and following routes she traveled—in particular that last journey wrenching her from her beloved land and people—we want to understand her life, place and people from a perspective closer to her experience. As she wrote: “I cannot explain how happy I am to be going up this river once again. There is something takes a hold of me, thrills me, as I go inward. It cannot be explained, it can only be experienced.”

Esther Nelson’s story rests now in her letters waiting to be told, a story that is intimately interwoven with China’s. A story that both Chinese and others need to hear and see to understand better those historic years and their own place in history and to appreciate those who have gone before and to see what it’s like now in comparison.

Our digitalized albums of Esther’s pictures will be conversation starters and might connect us with a child or grandchild of one of her students or neighbors. Our photography as we travel will give a glimpse of China today through the immediacy of blogging, as we are able. Later a biographical travelogue book will grow from this venture, with photos of then and now.

We go in the spirit of Esther Nelson, leaving the USA: “Fare thee well my dear, dear church. Farewell Minneapolis. Farewell, Minnesota, state of 10,000 lakes, and farewell USA. As I leave you waving farewell, I turn and on the other side there is the waving and beckoning of welcome—my chosen people.”

 

Old age, new age, the ancients

“We can do one thing on the way from Grand Canyon back to Phoenix. Several people have said we should be sure to go to Sedona, and some of them think it’s more beautiful than the Grand Canyon. Or we could go to Montezuma Castle National Monument, which is not a castle and has nothing to do with Montezuma. It’s your trip, Talitha. You decide.”

“I want to see the cliff dwellings at Montezuma Castle,” she said.

“Yes!” (fist pump). “I was hoping you’d say that. I rather see ancient dwellings hanging on a cliffside that wander in a New Age hangout.”

cutaway model

Montezuma’s Castle is only a few miles off I-17 near Camp Verde, Arizona. It’s intriguing to wander the path there and imagine life hundreds of years ago in houses deserted more than 400 years ago by a people that has mysteriously disappeared from history. This was just the right stop-off in our day of travel.

(My new Senior Pass was my entry to the monument. I expected to pay for Talitha, but discovered that the agency’s Lifetime Senior Pass also provides admission for up to 3 additional adults with the cardholder. Another fist pump.)

Religional airline with DIY inflight meals

This made me laugh out loud, even though I was by myself. I hope that’s not a sign of insanity or senility.

With a southern accent, it could just as well be rural Southern Baptist, where my wings began growing.

It’s just audio, so close our eyes and let your mental images fly.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZR2_hLa0u00

(Thanks to my cousin Milton who makes sure I know about everything important.)

Only one person can kill me

A lot of planes fly over our house. They fly so high I never even notice they’re there.

A lot of planes fly over our house . . . until 9/11/01, when all planes were grounded. During those 3 days, I heard the silence. The skies screamed.

When flights began again, I could turn my attention again more undistractedly back to “normal” life, instead of staring up.

More than anything I wanted to fly–anywhere. I wanted to prove with my body that my life and death are not in the hands of  any human. My life is in God’s hand’s. No one and nothing can take it until he says it’s the time for my appointment.

. . . whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. 

Romans 14:8

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Our 6-year-old Talitha’s heart was gripped with one prayer after 9/11. I wrote about it at my other blog.